Why I Have Resisted Blogging

So, I’ve started a blog. Yep, I’ve joined the bagillions of other people who have blogs. I’ve resisted this whole blogging thing for a long time, and I’ll tell you why. I’ve grouped it into four major reasons.

First of all, I’m not sure I am going to be any good at this. I read and follow plenty of amazing blogs about weight loss, families, health struggles, business building, crafting,  and religion and all sorts of things. I mean, there are some amazing blogs out there. I have a degree with writing in the title, but really, does that mean that I should be doing this? Would mine be any good?

That leads me into the next issue with me blogging. What in the world am I going to blog about?  I could blog about any of those many things that I mentioned above. I could do a blog about all of me doing all of Martha Stewart’s Good Things and call it Martha and Martha (oh wait, I think that idea has already been done). Do I need a gimmick? A catch? What would make people read my blog? 

And why would anyone read my blog?  I am not really anything special. I am not a coach, a successful business woman, a weight loss success story. I (thankfully) am not struggling though any huge health issues, and my 2 kids and 1 hubby are pretty normal. I am not a millionaire, I don’t have a million followers on twitter, and I don’t really have a million craft ideas.  I do not have some (known) great purpose, no great mission in life.

The last and actually probably the biggest reason is FEAR. That is it. I am afraid of so many things. With regards to blogging though – I am afraid I will make some mistake on here and it will haunt me. I am afraid that I will offend someone (or many someones). I am afraid that no one will read this and that I will have put effort into this for *no* reason. And I am super-duper afraid that I will fail at this like I have failed so many other times in my life.

So there you go, all of the main reasons why I should not start a blog.  I am sure there are tons more, conscious or not. So, why did I start one? And what is my blog really about? You’ll have to come back to find out.

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December 31, 2009 in Blogging
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  • Leslie
    Yay! I get to learn more about how marvelous you are! I've been smitten with you since the first time I saw you at the ACTS retreat in April 2009 and one of my 2010 goals is to get to know you better. :)
  • Well, now I can keep up with you, (maybe)...

    I used to blog, but everyone seems to be twittering or facebook or something else (what else is there?)...

    You are gifted and you are in top 0.000000001 percent on my list!

    Love you!

    DAD
  • Donna
    Martha,

    From the statistics I have, you are in the top 1% of your family!! I am looking forward to your thoughts and insights. What a great way to conquer your one of your fears...facing it head on! That is one of the things that I admire the most about you, your courage! You will not fail! I am looking forward to reading your posts as you share your beautiful heart with the rest of us!

    Love ya...donna
  • Amy Z.
    Congratulations, Martha! YAY for facing fears and for walking our path -- even when we don't know where it is going. I'm thrilled to be able to follow your marvelous blog!
  • Marvelous Martha
    Thanks Amy! I can't wait to read yours also!
  • I'm so glad you're blogging--- I've been wanting to get to know you better. I beg to differ with only one point you made. You *are* a successful business woman. Aren't you in the top 2% of our company? hmm?
  • Marvelous Martha
    Heather - Thanks for the encouragement! However, I *used* to be in the top 2%. What is a red jacket top 5%? Ha!
  • I say you'll do great. I fall back on, "If no one else reads this, no big deal. It keeps the fam in touch and is a way to vent/rejoice about military life. And maybe if some strangers get a kick out of my boring life, then great!"
  • Marvelous Martha
    Exactly Lauren! I'll talk more about why I did it in my next post...
  • This will be a great blog! Because it is yours and yours alone! Don't worry about what anyone thinks. It doesn't matter. It's all about you and whatever you want to talk about!

    Keep your chin up!
    ~Viv
  • Marvelous Martha
    Thanks Viv!
  • June
    2010, conqour fears. Check I can't wait to see what you've got to say. God Bless!
  • Marvelous Martha
    Thanks June! I'm excited to see what I have to say too!
  • rob
    Good Luck! I'm sure it'll be great.
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